Figure out who you are. Then do it on purpose. Dolly Parton

In 1996, I became a celebrant.  Over the years I have  worked as a celebrant with couples and whanau, creating rituals and ceremonies to mark life’s milestones.  It has been the most satisfying part of my working life, helping people at times of joy and sorrow.  Although I retired as a wedding celebrant in 2024, I continue to work as a funeral celebrant. 

Since publishing my book This is Farewell, a collection of poems and meditations on death and dying, I have become a sought-after speaker with a presentation called You’ve Organised Your Funeral – Now Get on With Living! 

In 2004 I was invested as a Member of the New Zealand Order of Merit (MNZM) for my services to entertainment.  In 2025, I was conferred as a Life Member of my professional body, Celebrancy Aotearoa New Zealand (CANZ).

I am married to Allan Abbott, and we are encircled by a large, loving extended family. I am a proud step-mum and Nana.